Michael Ceely is a licensed psychotherapist, serving clients online in California, Florida and Wisconsin.
Disclaimer: Content on this blog and website is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
Your Pre-Resolution SOLUTION
Did you know that less than 25% of people stay committed to their New Year's resolutions after 30 days? Why? There are two main reasons: pressure and belief.
Most people put way too much pressure on themselves when it comes to New Year's resolutions. They take their resolutions very, very seriously. And that's the problem. They psych themselves out before they even start. With pre-resolutions, it's just an experiment. No pressure, no commitment.
Ever ride a bicycle? Did you believe you could ride it before, or... after you rode it? Of course after. Your body is connected to your brain and until you actually do something, you don't truly believe it's possible. That's the beauty of pre-resolutions: you increase your belief.
1. Choose Something that Excites You. You want as much intrinsic motivation as possible. On the days that you don't feel like doing your resolution, you'll still have some drive to do it anyway.
Play around with a few different resolutions, if you like. Remember, you're just experimenting. Have fun.
2. Dive In. Best way to get started is to get started. Remember this is just an experiment. Don't procrastinate by planning or overthinking. For example, let's say you want to start walking 30 minutes a day. Well, go outside RIGHT NOW and walk for 15 minutes.
Take all the pressure off of yourself and simply enjoy your "test walk." Think about how this new habit will improve your life next year. Envision yourself walking daily, feeling healthy all year long. Take it all in and enjoy it.
Now, if you absolutely hated your 15 minute walk, that's good information! You might want to choose a different resolution. But if you actually enjoyed it, you primed your brain for follow-through.
3. Write It Down. As soon as you finish testing out your pre-resolution (and you in fact enjoyed it), then write it down immediately. This is important, as you want to connect your positive emotions to the words you write. Your subconscious mind inscribes your current feelings to the words. Going forward, when you look at your resolution, your brain registers success.
Make sure to put your written resolution in a place where you'll see it frequently, perhaps on a Post-It on your computer screen.
That's it! You now have a greater chance of starting your new behavior. Need more motivation? Read how just
15 minutes of daily exercise can change your life.
As an added bonus, you can enlist a friend. Have them test out their pre-resolutions too. Get some accountability.
For some high-level strategies on how to follow through on your resolutions, check out my blog S.M.A.R.T. + Accountable: The Winning Formula.
If pre-resolutions work for you, please share this post with a friend.
Michael Ceely is a licensed psychotherapist, serving clients online in California, Florida and Wisconsin.
Disclaimer: Content on this blog and website is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
Michael Ceely is a licensed psychotherapist, serving clients online in California, Florida and Wisconsin.
Disclaimer: Content on this blog and website is for informational purposes only and should not be considered professional advice.
Michael Ceely, DBA Ceely Counseling | CA License #93938
Michael Ceely, DBA Ceely Counseling | CA License #93938