Michael Ceely, LMFT

Transforming Stress into Calm and Confidence

Counseling for Men in California

Berkeley therapist Michael Ceely, smiling, seated on a black couch.

Michael Ceely, LMFT

Transforming Stress into Calm and Confidence

Counseling for Men in California

Berkeley therapist Michael Ceely is sitting in a chair and smiling.

Michael Ceely, LMFT

Transforming Stress into Calm and Confidence

Counseling for Men in California

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Men: can you relate to these common challenges?

Men: can you relate to these common challenges?

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Stress & Anxiety

Are you trying to achieve your goals but feel held back by worrying, overthinking, or perfectionism?

Work & Career

Are you working hard in your career  but feel overwhelmed or unsure about the future?

Relationships & Life Changes

Feeling stressed about a major life event like marriage, a breakup, or becoming a father?

Sport Performance

Are you a competitive athlete but feeling nervous, self-critical, or burned out?

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Stress & Anxiety

Are you trying to achieve your goals but feel held back by anxiety or overthinking?

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Work & Career

Are you working hard in your career but feel overwhelmed or unsure about the future?

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Relationships & Life Changes

Feeling stressed about a major life change like marriage, a breakup, or becoming a father?

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What if there was a better way?

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What if you could continue to achieve at a high level without all the anxiety?

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What if you had a clear, passionate vision for the future of your career?

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What if your relationships were healthy and energizing, both at home and at work?

What if there was a better way?

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What if you could continue to achieve at a high level without all the anxiety?

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What if you had a clear, passionate vision for the future of your career?

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What if your relationships were healthy and energizing, both at home and at work?

You don't have to handle life's challenges alone.

There's a better way.

A calmer, more confident life is possible.

There is a better way.

A calmer, more confident life is possible.

Hi, I'm Michael Ceely

I help men overcome stress, gain clarity in their lives, and take meaningful action to move forward with purpose.


Too many men sacrifice their health, relationships, and happiness chasing an outdated paradigm of success. The old model of just pushing through stress no longer works.


There’s a better way. I can help you find a calmer, more confident life, where you're thriving and successful, without all the stress.

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Hi, I'm Michael Ceely

I help men overcome stress, gain clarity in their lives, and take meaningful action to move forward with purpose.


Too many men sacrifice their health, relationships, and happiness chasing an outdated paradigm of success. The old model of just pushing through stress no longer works.


There’s a better way. I can help you find a calmer, more confident life, where you're thriving and successful, without all the stress.

Hi, I'm Michael Ceely

I help men overcome stress, gain clarity in their lives, and take meaningful action to move forward with purpose.


Too many men sacrifice their health, relationships, and happiness chasing an outdated paradigm of success. The old model of just pushing through stress no longer works.


There’s a better way. I can help you find a calmer, more confident life, where you're thriving and successful, without all the stress.

What Clients Are Saying

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"I worked with Michael for a 4 month period and was very impressed with the speed at which he was able to diagnose my 'cognitive distortions' and offer tips and solutions to get me back on the right track towards feeling and living my best life. Thank you Michael!"

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Working with Michael: 3 Steps to Lasting Change

1. Eliminate the Barriers

Men often find their progress blocked by old patterns or limiting beliefs, which leads to stress, conflict and burnout.


My approach to counseling is based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), a powerful tool for personal change.


CBT helps you identify and remove limiting beliefs and behaviors so you can solve your problems in a more effective way.

2. Strengthen Your Skills

Working with me, you'll learn powerful emotional, relational, and behavioral skills.


We won't just talk about these skills during counseling sessions. I'll show you how to apply them in the real world.


Your new skills will eventually become your new default. You'll get better at handling situations that once felt overwhelming.

3. Achieve Your Goals

As you reach your goals, we'll taper off sessions so you won't slip back into old patterns. We'll make sure you're 100% confident and ready to "graduate" from therapy.


In summary, you'll establish a calmer, more confident way of responding to life's challenges.


Counseling does take some work, but the effort is worth it. Whatever you're going through now, things can get better.

Achieve More with Counseling

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More Calm

Conquer anxiety and stop worst-case scenario thinking before it gets out of hand.

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More Confidence

Eliminate self-doubt, be more decisive, and start trusting yourself again.

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More Skills

Use the skills you learn in therapy sessions to create lasting, positive change in your life.

How to Get Started with Counseling

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A Message from Michael

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5-Star Google Reviews

Ellis Edmunds

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"Michael is a kind, compassionate, and insightful therapist. He is an expert in sports psychology and helping you take the actions you need to reach your goals. I highly recommend him."

Kin Leung

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"Michael is an outstanding therapist. He is compassionate to your needs and also gives you just the right push to help you reach your goals. I highly recommend Michael."

Dr. David Shepard

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Google Review

"Michael is an amazing therapist. With compassion and understanding, Michael works with men to find the confidence in themselves to live an authentic fulfilling life. Michael's sports psychology training and his own experience of being an athlete, allow him the unique insight to help facilitate healthy changes in athletes, entrepreneurs and high achievers. I highly recommend Michael if you are looking for a therapist that will help you develop the skills and space to achieve your goals."

Robert Ashe

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Google Review

"Michael has a unique combination of providing keen insights, thoughtfulness, extensive experience and the capacity to collaboratively sort through difficult life challenges. Furthermore, he deeply understands the challenges that men face in today's society and how to equip them with the tools to navigate this inherent complexity. I highly recommend Michael as a resource for the goals a prospective client is looking to achieve for themselves."

Sarah McLaughlin

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"Michael is an experienced therapist who cares deeply about his clients. Michael is very knowledgeable when it comes to CBT techniques and how to help clients have a shift in mindset and mood. He is patient and compassionate. I would highly recommend working with him"

Reina Turner

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"Michael is an incredibly warm, compassionate, and insightful therapist. Whether you are seeking therapy as an athlete or just need support navigating daily stressors, Michael has a great ability to motivate and inspire his clients to make lasting positive change in their lives."

Brian Sedgeley, Psy.D.

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"Michael is a passionate and personable therapist. There are few male therapists who are as skilled with working with men as he is."

Alec Herring

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"I have known Michael for over 25 years. He’s a warm, good-humored, thoughtful person who has been a great friend and confidant. Michael is one of the first people I turn to when I need someone to talk to."

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Are sessions online or in-person?

    All therapy sessions are conducted online via a secure video platform.

  • What are your fees for services?

    My fee is $275 for a standard 50 minute counseling session.


    Extended sessions are also available (please ask about current rates).

  • Do you accept insurance?

    I am an out-of-network therapy provider, meaning your insurance may reimburse a portion of my fee, reducing your overall cost.


    Contact your insurance provider and ask if they cover out-of-network psychotherapy services.


    Read more on my blog post about insurance vs private pay.

  • Do you work with couples, families, and children?

    No, I only provide online counseling to individual adults. I specialize in men's therapy


    If you are looking for a couples therapist, or a child, teen, or family therapist, I may be able to suggest someone for you. Feel free to give me a call.

  • How does cognitive behavioral therapy work?

    My style of counseling is based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), a goal-oriented style of therapy that focuses on changing the way you think about, and react to, challenging events. 


    CBT empowers you with the "observer mind" so you can examine your automatic thoughts and reactions that keep you stuck.


    By replacing your reactive thoughts and behaviors with informed, positive responses, you gain more control over your life, which leads to greater satisfaction and less stress. 


    Learn more on my cognitive behavioral therapy page.

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Change starts with a single step forward.

Change starts with a single step forward.

Schedule your free call today.

Book a Free 15-min Call

Get started with counseling today.

Book a Free 15-min Call

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