Counseling for Men

Michael Ceely, LMFT

San Francisco Bay Area & California

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Men: can you relate to these common challenges?

  • Overachieving to the point where your life feels out of balance.
  • Feeling frustrated at work or burned out in your career.
  • Being self-critical or dealing with perfectionism.
  • Experiencing conflict in your relationships.

You don't have to handle life's challenges alone.

A bald man is sitting on a stool in front of a gray background.

Hi, I'm Michael Ceely

I help men conquer stress, get clarity on their problems, and take positive action to get back on track.


Too many men sacrifice their health, relationships and happiness chasing an outdated paradigm of success. The old model of just pushing through stress no longer works.


There’s a better way. I can help you find a calmer, more confident life, where you're thriving and successful, without all the stress.

Hi, I'm Michael Ceely

If you're tired of keeping it all together managing career pressure, relationship stress, and the weight of everyone's expectations, you've come to the right place. I understand the unique pressures men face in the Bay Area's high-achieving culture.


Using cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and sport psychology principles, I'll help you develop practical tools to manage stress, communicate effectively, and build authentic confidence.

Why More Men Are Choosing Counseling

Redefining Strength

Traditionally, men have been told to be self-reliant, deny difficult emotions, and just tough it out. Seeking help, especially getting therapy, has been seen as a weakness.


Times have changed, but the stigma of men going to therapy is still there.


There’s a myth that therapy is about crying or discussing your childhood. Hey, nothing wrong with that, but therapy is also about facing your problems and developing a concrete plan to improve your life.


Therapy is about getting stronger - mentally, emotionally and relationally.

Being Your Authentic Self

What does it mean to be authentic, and who defines this? These are the questions men are faced with today.


Men get mixed messages from society and the media. On the one hand, they’re supposed to be tough and not ask for help. On the other hand, men are told to “be vulnerable.”


So how can men define their own lives? Can they be confident and independent, while at the same time ask for help?


Of course. You don't have to define yourself by other people's standards.

Expanding Beyond Your Limits

You can grow far beyond what you think is possible. Just because you’re not where you want to be today doesn’t mean you can’t grow into your future.


Do you want better relationships, more emotional satisfaction, and greater confidence?


You can have all of this. It starts with the courage to make a change, the decision to reach out for help, and the resolve to do the work.



You are capable of creating a better life for yourself. Why not get started today?

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Are sessions online or in-person?

    All therapy sessions are conducted online via a secure video platform.

  • What are your fees for services?

    My fee is $275 for a standard 50 minute counseling session.


    Extended sessions are also available (please ask about current rates).

  • Do you accept insurance?

    I am an out-of-network therapy provider, meaning your insurance may reimburse a portion of my fee, reducing your overall cost.


    Contact your insurance provider and ask if they cover out-of-network psychotherapy services.


    Read more on my blog post about insurance vs private pay.

  • Do you work with couples, families, and children?

    No, I only provide online counseling to individual adults. I specialize in men's therapy


    If you are looking for a couples therapist, or a child, teen, or family therapist, I may be able to suggest someone for you. Feel free to give me a call.

  • How does cognitive behavioral therapy work?

    My style of counseling is based on cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), a goal-oriented style of therapy that focuses on changing the way you think about, and react to, challenging events. 


    CBT empowers you with the "observer mind" so you can examine your automatic thoughts and reactions that keep you stuck.


    By replacing your reactive thoughts and behaviors with informed, positive responses, you gain more control over your life, which leads to greater satisfaction and less stress. 


    Learn more on my cognitive behavioral therapy page.

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Change starts with a single step forward.

Schedule a call today.

Book a Free 15-min Call

YouTube Channel

More on YouTube

Blog Articles

Silhouette of a person gazing out a window at a city skyline.
By Michael Ceely August 30, 2025
5 proven strategies for achieving sustainable work-life balance without sacrificing success. Stop chasing perfection and create your own version of balance.
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By Michael Ceely July 25, 2025
Discover the five common perfectionism traps of high achievers and learn practical strategies to overcome them. Helpful for executives, entrepreneurs, and athletes.
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